Difficulty with talking therapies
Sometimes, we are in place where we want to feel better but just can’t seem to find the words to express ourselves to anyone to start to make sense of our burden and find that talking therapy is working for us. EFP is an effective therapy as no words are necessary although you may find yourself confiding in the horse as they can be good, patient listeners too.
Instant Feedback – Horses as our emotional mirror
Due to horses having a similar limbic system to humans, they can feel similar emotions to us. Also, because they are a prey animal, they can quickly recognise emotions in others. For example, if one member feels a surge of fear they are all instantly informed and ready to move as a herd to escape potential danger. They often even recognise emotions in humans before we ourselves are aware of it. This useful skill from our equine co-therapists can give you and the therapist a good insight into how you may be feeling and thinking. Horses are our emotional mirror.
Relationship Building / Interpersonal Skills
Horses, like humans, have an underlying need to be in a group or herd. Whether we are more introverted or more extroverted by nature, we still need other humans to survive. In learning to build a relationship with a horse, we learn about ourselves and the way we relate to others, often noticing old, unhelpful patterns that have led us to difficulties with getting on with others or unhappy relationships. Horses provide instant, honest and non-judgmental feedback, which can give us a good sense in how we relate to others. In practicing relationship building, with our big-hearted friends in nature, we can learn how to be in relationship with others in a way which makes us feel comfortable, safe and content.
Connection to our true self
‘Beauty comes from within’, as does our happiness, our freedom, self-love, self-regulation, sense of safety & trust and compassion. Horses help us connect to those parts of ourselves that are always there inside of us, even if we have temporarily lost that connection.
Building Trust
Sometimes our ability to trust has been shattered, especially if we have experienced trauma. Without our ability to trust, we can find ourselves unable to build relationships, make friends, and find ourselves in an exhausted state of confusion. As horses live in the present moment and are very tuned in to their environment, riding with the wave of curiosity, alertness and then calmness and contentedness, they can help us fine tune our instincts in the present moment and build up that muscle of ability to trust.
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